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Are You In Control of Your Brain?

22 Saturday Nov 2014

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The power of the mind to heal the body and achieve great things, for eons known by man to be fact, has in recent times been ignorantly overlooked or, worse, intentionally swept under the rug. Why?

“Everything we do and say is first a thought.”  And that’s where many of the problems begin.

How Much Is Genetic?

Many diseases are caused or brought on by our negative thinking and resulting poor choices.  “Genes may create an environment within us in which a problem may grow, a predisposition, but they do not produce the problem; we produce it through our choices.”  Consider these findings:

  • “Research shows that DNA actually changes shape in response to our thoughts.”
  • “Research shows that 75 to 98 percent of mental, physical, and behavioral illness comes from one’s thought life.”
  • “Our genetic makeup fluctuates by the minute based on what we are thinking and choosing.”
  • “Research shows that 40 to 60 percent of heart disease patients suffer clinical depression and 30 to 50 percent of patients who suffer clinical depression are at risk for heart disease.”
  • “Our thinking and subsequent choices become the signal switches for our genes.”
  • “Other research shows that women who have suffered abuse were 60 percent more likely to have a child with autism.”
  • Our negative thinking and poor choices can genetically affect our children, predisposing them with similar tendencies.

social media starThere are other not-so-pleasant side effects from our thinking (or lack thereof).  “Greater social media use is associated with a higher body mass index, increased binge eating, a lower credit score, and higher levels of credit card debt for consumers with many close friends in their social network – all caused by a lack of self-control.”

We are as we think.  “What we say and do is based on what we have already built into our minds.”  If undealt with garbage from the past and present is built into our minds, then we are not likely healthy or happy.

The Brain’s Constant Dance

The brain is not static, but always changing as a result of input from our five senses, as well as the rehashing of good and bad “baggage” in our sub-consciences.  Our thoughts continuously rewire and physically change our brain.  “Neuroplasticity by definition means the brain is malleable and adaptable, changing moment by moment of every day.”

“Our thoughts, imagination, and choices can change the structure and function of our brains on every level: molecular, genetic, epigenetic, cellular, structural, neurochemical, and electromagnetic, and even subatomic.”

“It is very interesting that every cell in the body is connected to the heart, and the brain controls the heart and the mind controls the brain.  So whatever we are thinking about affects [or can affect] every cell in our body.”

The Flip Side

“The design of the brain allows us to capture and discipline chaotic thoughts.”  It is possible to “take every thought captive” and retrain our thinking to starve the negative thoughts and feed good ones.

“Our brain does not control us; we control our brain through our thinking and choosing.”Kitty Brain

“We can change the physical nature of our brain through our thinking and choosing.”

“As we consciously direct our thinking, we can wire out toxic patterns of thinking and replace them with healthy thoughts.”

Put Rubber To The Road

“We need to wire in positive thought networks that can fill us with the power to get us back on track.”  The process of changing our thinking is a conscious, disciplined one, and to be practiced daily.  “Through our thoughts, we can be our own brain surgeons as we make choices that change the circuits in our brains.  We are designed to do our own brain surgery.”

“Research has shown that mental practice – imagination, visualization, deep thought, and reflection – produces the same physical changes in the brain as would physically carrying out the same imagined processes.”  The same parts of the brain are activated by thinking about an act, as by the act itself.

“It’s your thinking that will actually change your brain.”

Daily practice of the five steps below will simultaneously break down toxic thoughts and build up healthy replacement memories.  Perform this process seven to ten minutes per day, for a least a 21 day cycle (this is considered to be the brain detox cycle).  Most times one cycle is enough to rewire toxic thought, but repeat the 21 day cycle as needed (the book referenced below recommends at least three total cycles in order for the change to become automatized).

  1. “Gather” – Be aware of incoming thoughts through the five senses, and from nonconscious memories and their attitudes, and associated feelings. This step brings thought into consciousness.
  2. “Focused Reflection” – Evaluate one of the harmful thoughts and its interconnections. The process includes body awareness, emotion regulation, and sense of self.  Think about solutions too, not just the problem.
  3. “Write” – Writing helps consolidate thoughts/memory, adds clarity to thinking, and helps you see areas needing work. Keep a thought journal.  Or try drawing a graphical representation or diagram of the central thought, with off-chutes and branches for each facet of that thought.  Aside from defining issues, identify ideas for solutions.
  4. “Revisit” – Work out solutions and ways to overcome. Evaluate where you have come from and where you are going.
  5. “Active Reach” – Take action. Teach yourself to get rid of the thought in some creative, active manner.  For example, every time you have that particular harmful thought, you could remind yourself of your solution, dwell on your chosen replacement thought, or repeat some other positive message to yourself.  Eventually your response to this toxic thought will become automatic.  Important: Repeat/practice this action step at least seven times throughout the day.

place to thinkFinal Thoughts

Seek these good things for your brain:  Introspection and thinking things through, letting your mind wander (but stay out of the gutter), sleeping, deep thinking, self-reflection, prayer, catching your thoughts and weeding out toxic ones, developing your mind intellectually, and trying to see the positive in things.

All quotes and the five step process paraphrased above are from the book, Switch On Your Brain, The Key to Peak Happiness, Thinking, and Health, by Dr. Caroline Leaf.

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Your Financial Success

14 Wednesday May 2014

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Limited Time Free Kindle Book Offer

For the next five days only (May 14 – May 18, 2014) you can download Daniel R. Murphy’s new book, Your Financial Success – The Seven Essential Steps for Free on Kindle.

Your Financial Success“Your Financial Success” is right on the mark and highly recommended for anyone wanting to get their financial act together. This to-the-point and easy to understand book is full of the time-tested guidelines to help anyone, at any age, start making wise steps towards their financial freedom. I loved it and know from personal experience that these principles really work.

And if this good advice wasn’t enough, Murphy will send you “financial coach” email reminders for an entire year to review the key concepts of this book and supply you with continual encouragement to help motivate you to put these ideas into practice. Seriously, what do you have to lose?

If you do not have a Kindle you can learn how to download a free Kindle reader for your PC or Mac and learn about the features of this great new book at http://danielrmurphy.com/your-financial-success/

Don’t miss this great opportunity to get this book for free for a limited time.

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Three Steps to Millionaire Status

14 Friday Mar 2014

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Dream HomeDo you want to be a success with money?  Understanding and applying these three concepts will help you get there, wherever that is.

1. Your privilege of free choice determines your potential more than your abilities.

2. Missing an opportunity is worse than failing.

3. You have to climb up the steep hill before you can glide.

There, now you know how to become a millionaire.  For more information on this topic, including a synopsis of how you can “Achieve Anything in Just One Year,” go to books2wealth.com and read this intriguing article by Daniel Murphy (Newsletter 279, 3/7/2014):

Click to access 127-Achieve_Anything_in_Just_One_Year_-_Harvey-web.pdf

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Global Business Model

08 Wednesday Jan 2014

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Tatiana

Article by Cory Richardson.

Imagine my pleasant surprise to meet savvy, smart, and eye-catching Tatiana Vila from El Salvador through a recent business venture in which I never even left my town of Walla Walla, Washington.  Thank you Internet and global economy!

It all started with my browsing a Smashwords newsletter.  Smashwords is a gem in the world of publishers for independent book authors.  In the resources list of the newsletter, an entry caught my eye:  “Mark’s List – Low cost cover designers and ebook formatters.”

Since I had recently read an excellent Smashwords article about ways to improve visibility of your books, I was already thinking that, without a doubt, my book covers needed a serious update, especially since I had done them myself.  Though I like to think of myself as an artist (writer and musician), I needed to shove down a little pride and admit that I can’t do everything like an expert…ah, for example, my own book covers.

Reviewing the book cover artists’ portfolios on Mark’s List, one stood out in particular: Vila Design.  Visually, their covers really seemed to “pop.”  That’s exactly what Scorpion2I was looking for.  Oh, how my own book covers looked even more sad!  This was definitely the needed slap in the face.  Their website looked fresh and simple too.  After an inquiry, I was immediately contacted by a Tatiana Vila.

Tatiana seemed enthusiastic about working with me on a cover, her prices were right, and I especially liked the statement on her website that there could be “Unlimited rounds of revisions until you’re 100% satisfied!”  We perfectionists appreciate that!  Besides, she had me at “Tatiana.”

Now, it is always a bright idea to do some research on anyone you are doing business with, whether online or anywhere else.  Tatiana’s presence online was easy to find, such as her blog, and her profile on Goodreads and Smashwords, where I discovered that she is an author too.  Okay, so she probably knows a thing or two about books!  And book covers, obviously.  She came across as a pro who knows what she’s doing so I thought, ‘let’s go for it!’  Besides, remember that Mark Coker from Smashwords recommended her?  I already had a basic trust in “Mark’s List” because I think that Smashwords is genius.  And how can you not be thoroughly impressed with Mark’s free guide for publishing ebooks, “Smashwords Style Guide,” which by the way is THE best instruction on using Microsoft Word that I’ve ever seen (okay, I haven’t seen any, but I’ve used Word plenty so there’s no doubt he knows what he’s talking about)?  But I’m diverging.

Silicon FacadesFast forward a month or two.  Currently we’re at book cover number five with Tatiana, and her talents continue to impress me and my wife.  She has a great eye for design and I must say, she’s pretty much nailed every cover on the very first try.  And I tend to be a detail freak.  A few times I’ve asked her to make some changes (which she did without hesitation) only to end up going back to her original version anyway.  Yep, she’s got a real talent for this.

But it’s more than just book covers.  In our conversations back and forth in the course of doing business, I learned a few things about Tatiana, like she:

Lives in San Salvador, El Salvador.

Studied in the south of France for four years.

Has a Bachelor’s degree in Hotel Management from the Institut Vatel in France.

Adores spicy Mexican food, wine a close second.

Has traveled, besides France and other European destinations, to the United States (Florida, Texas, New Mexico, Indiana, Illinois, Tennessee and Kentucky).

And she loves spending time with family and friends, and going to the coast and the mountains.

Tatiana was gracious enough to send me some pictures of her favorite spots in her Zonte Beachbeautiful country, as well as some candid shots of her and her family.  She’s “good people,” I can tell.

So, see why I must do an interview?  She is so intriguing that I thought it would be golden to find out some more about her.

Tatiana Vila Interview:

Cory:  Your book cover design website, Vila Design, is so professional looking, a fitting showcase for your impressive portfolio of book covers.  Did you design your website?

Tatiana: Yes, I did! Good thing that you mention it because it took me a long time to design it. One more thing I can put in my skills, I suppose. 🙂

Lost at SeaCory:  Your portfolio of book covers caught my eye more than any other cover designer in the Smashwords listing.  When did you start designing book covers and what led you to do it?  How did you end up on “Mark’s List” from Smashwords?

Tatiana:  Like you said, I am a writer and started just like any other Indie writer looking for a good cover designer. To my surprise, though, the ones that offered professional work were too expensive and way out of my budget. That’s when I realized I had to give it a try and do it for myself. Fortunately, it ended up well!  I received a lot of compliments on my cover for THE YLEM, my first book, which drove several authors to seek my help. When I least realized it, I had a small portfolio of 10 book covers. I knew Smashwords was accepting submissions for their “ebook cover designers list” and since there seemed to be a lack of good, affordable cover designers, I decided to send my work to Mark. As you can see, I ended up being accepted, and work and satisfied customers have increased over the years. Life is good. 🙂

Cory:  Do your customers usually discover that you are from El Salvador?  Do they ask you many questions besides business?

Tatiana: Normally they don’t. Crazy, right? Some authors do ask me but most assume I’m from the US or Russia (because of my name).

Cory:  When designing book covers, are people generally super nit-picky (a pain in the The Yelmass) about what they want so that you spend a lot of time making changes?  Or are people mostly easy to please?  Or do you just hit a home run every time because of your talents?

Tatiana: I would love to say I hit a home run every time but perfection is hard to achieve, especially when tastes are so different. But I can’t complain. Most people are easy to please, really. I haven’t had a hard time doing rounds of changes. There are some customers who are nit-picky and take advantage of the rounds of changes, but hey, it’s completely understandable. Writing a book is hard work and the cover is your card of presentation. Getting the best cover possible is a golden rule. 🙂

Cory:  Where is most of your book cover business from?  Where are some of your other customers from?

Tatiana:  Most of my business comes directly from Smashwords, but a major part comes from word of mouth as well. The latter is my favorite, of course!

Cory:  When did you start writing books?  How many books have your authored?  What genre?  Are you working on a book now?

Tatiana: I started writing books just after I graduated from college in France. The written word has always been a passion of mine, so having the possibility to get Break Awaysomething published, even if self-published, was a dream come true. Until now, I’ve written two books and I’m finishing the third, Alluvion, which is part of The Ylem trilogy. Break Away, my second book, is part of another series. All of them are YA.

Cory:  I noticed quite a few books on Amazon that you have co-authored?  What was your role in co-authoring?

Tatiana: Honestly, I didn’t do much. I just gave my output regarding titling and plot. So nothing fancy.

Cory:  Have you designed the covers for your own books and your co-authored books?

Tatiana: Yes, all of them. 🙂

Cory:  Have you used other publishers besides Amazon and Smashwords?

Tatiana: I haven’t. I’m really satisfied with their service so changing publishers isn’t in my mind, really. I totally recommend them!

Cory:  What general advice would you have for book authors wanting to make it big?

Tatiana: Write a lot. It’s harder for indie authors to make a name so releasing 2-3 books a year is good marketing (something I haven’t been able to do, unfortunately).

Cory:  What is your dream job?

Tatiana: Actually, I’m already doing it. No kidding. But if I had to choose something else, then I would love to have one of those shows where they scare people! It’s just too funny and, of course, I LOVE to scare the hell out of people. Just ask my family. Lol

Cory:  Were you born in El Salvador?  You also mentioned Spain.  What is your connection to Spain?Coatepeque Lake

Tatiana: I was born in El Salvador but I have a Spanish passport. See, my dad is from Valladolid, Spain, so that entitles me to have the Spanish nationality, which is really cool because I get to vote for both countries. 🙂

Cory:  Have you lived anywhere else besides El Salvador and France?

Tatiana: I lived in Mexico for 6 months. Thank God I decided to come back to El Salvador because if I stayed one more day over there, you wouldn’t have noticed the difference between Shamu and myself! Mexican food is just SO good and yummy!

Cory:  What did you do on your visits to the U.S., Florida, Texas, New Mexico, Indiana, Illinois, Tennessee and Kentucky?

Tatiana: My sister Heidi lives in Indiana, so most of the time I go to visit her and we occasionally do road tips. For the rest, it’s just for the sake of good, old fun tourism. 🙂

Cory:  In all our emails back and forth, your English has been perfect.  I noticed that from your very first email.  It didn’t take me long to realize that you are one smart cookie.  So I figured you might speak other languages.  You told me Spanish, English, French, and Portuguese.   Wow, you don’t say!  When did you learn these other languages?

Tatiana: In High School! That is one of the perks of studying in a French school. You get to learn a lot of languages. Traveling helps a lot, too.

Theta Series Book 1Cory:  I read on your blog website that you love to sing and compose songs.  Pop rock.  Tell me about that.  Do you play guitar?  Have you recorded any songs?

Tatiana: Oh, I wish I could play the guitar. I tried once but, really, my fingers couldn’t keep up with me! Lol. I’ve just recorded myself singing a cappella, without music so it’s pretty much boring.

Cory:  You told me that you are getting married next year.  Congratulations, I wish you the best.  Your beautiful picture, “I said Yes,” is every guy’s dream.  Your husband-to-be is, no doubt, one lucky guy.  And your life will be enhanced too.  It’s all a big change.  Do you plan to continuing writing and designing book covers after you are married?

Tatiana: OF COURSE! I don’t see myself in life without this! I’m a creative person and I really feel the need to let my creative juices run wild. 

Cory:  Do you have any grand travel plans in the next year?

Tatiana: My honeymoon? Lol. Though I still don’t know where I’m going. I’m planning to go to Indiana again sometime next year, too. 🙂

Cory:  What do you see yourself doing in five years?

Tatiana: I’ll be boring here. Sorry! But I see myself doing more and more book covers and, ok, perhaps signing a film contract for my books! Lol. I just couldn’t help to say that.

Okay, people, what do you think?  Tatiana, you are gold.

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Two Free Kindle eBooks

30 Monday Sep 2013

Posted by moneygooguru in Debt, Growing Wealth, Help is out there, House, saving money

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Thanks for being part of the Boiled Down Money Goo experience.  We thought you might enjoy these humorous tales of money woes and triumphs by our friend Taylor Young.  These are free on Kindle, September 29 & 30, October 1!

Cover How I lost a Million Dollars Twice

Money Prick Cover (Vila 01)

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Too Big For His Breeches?

14 Saturday Sep 2013

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Dave Ramsey:  Does he sometimes shoot himself in the foot?  From a Crocodile Hunter comment, to an Oprah blunder to recent Tweets, if not shooting himself in the foot it’s a big ol’ foot in the mouth at times.

Money magazine published an article called, “Save Like Dave, Just Don’t Invest Like Him,” in its October 2013 issue.

The first part of the article pointed out some entertaining online comments from Ramsey, who was reacting to negative statements from critics.  I was a little surprised that Dave would stoop to Tweeting, “I help more people in 10 min. than all of you combined in your ENTIRE lives.”  And then there’s the, “Don’t want to get bit by the big dog, stay off the porch.”  Whoa, Dave.  Sounds a little more like “Dog the Bounty Hunter” type of comments to me.  And although Dave has helped a lot of people, including my wife and me, humility is always good.

But why the authors of the Money article brought these online comments up, I don’t really know other than for the entertainment factor.  Or was it to try to attack Dave’s character?  Granted, it is generally just good advice to not respond via the internet to internet attacks.  This should be “Author 101” or “Public Figure 101” kind of stuff.  Regardless, bringing all this up in the magazine article really reveals nothing about Dave’s true credibility as an effective personal finances councilor.  It seems that maybe the authors were fishing for something or someone to string up.

After discussing the online comments, the article attacks Dave’s investment advice.  Admittedly, the authors do point out that Dave’s advice is more geared towards getting people out of debt and not giving them specific investment advice, citing the fact that, “His bestselling book, The Total Money Makeover has about two pages describing which mutual fund to invest in.  There’s an entire chapter on how to save $1,000.”  So why, then, do the authors of this article move ahead to criticize his investment advice?

The first big criticism in the article has to do with Dave’s advice in investment recommendations, some vague and some now out of date.  “Ramsey’s investing advice is weak…,” they state.  Why the authors felt the need to go here is unclear.  More fishing?  After all, The Total Money Makeover, like many other of Dave’s books, was written in pre-2004.  Dave even recommends that you get real investment advice from a qualified professional.  These few paragraphs in the article really should have been left out, because they only muddy the water.  The main focus of Dave’s books is clearly to help people struggling with debt.  Beyond that he does touch on the type of investments to be thinking about once out of debt, but it’s not meant to be an end-all guide for the investments themselves.

The Money article made a big deal about Dave’s claim of 12% stock market returns.  According to the authors, most experts tend to agree that the actual average stock market return since 1926 has been closer to 10%.  Stock market returns can be calculated several different ways, showing the same average return, yet differing in actual returns.  For this reason the article says that, “Returns should be calculated as annualized, or compound, returns.”

Here’s an example of mine to help illustrate this point. What if you invested a bunch of money in the stock market and by the end of your first year your investments went down 50%.  Suppose the next year your investments double in value (100% increase by end of the second year).  The “average” return over this two year period is (-50% + 100%)/2 = 25%!  Sounds fabulous, right?  The actual net two year return is 0% (you’re only back where you started).  This is not to say that Dave made such a boneheaded math error.  I doubt he did.

But the authors spend a skewed amount of text talking about this 12% thing, perhaps making a mountain out of a molehill, considering that Dave’s main point in his investment advice is that you need to be invested in the stock market somehow to see the most appreciable gains in your investments over the long haul.  Most investors would agree with this.  Are the authors just looking to split hairs (which Dave is missing anyway)?  Nevertheless, it is curious that according to this article, Dave was still adamantly defending his 12% return number with a critic during one of his radio programs.  If the mainstream pencil geeks are saying 10%, why is Dave still holding onto 12%?

The next justified reaming is over Dave’s statement that you should draw off 8% of your money in retirement.  Many experts believe you greatly increase your chances of running out of money in your old age if you do this.  Instead, it is recommended that people only draw off 4% or less from their investments in retirement to guarantee that their money will last indefinitely.  Okay, Dave, maybe that one was coming.

Then the article made a surprise shot, not against Ramsey necessarily, but more towards those “religious Christians.”  Why any attempt to tie Dave’s nature, or bizarre comments of clients referred through Dave, to any religion?  It really makes no sense.  I got the feeling that the authors wanted to take a poke at that religion and reinforce a read-between-the-lines notion that, “See, just a bunch of radical, out of touch, lunatics so how could they be smart with money, too.“

Here’s what the article should have been mostly about, though the authors only spent the last third of the article discussing.  It has to do with the part of Ramsey’s business that recommends Endorsed Local Providers (ELPs) to people who may want professional investment advice.  Its sounds like a good service.  But those ELPs generally have to jump through some hoops with Ramsey and apparently, as hinted to in the article, provide a kickback to Dave for referrals.

If that’s true then here’s the main kicker.  The ELPs generally sell front-load mutual funds, meaning that these funds have to outperform non-managed funds (like the S&P 500) in order for you to come out ahead.  I’ve read so many articles over the years that discuss how non-managed mutual funds (like Index Funds) generally outperform many or most managed funds.  So, bottom line, you don’t want to take financial advice to buy a product from someone who stands to gain financially from that product.  Of course, Dave isn’t getting a commission on the front-load mutual funds.  But he steers you to the salesman of that product and perhaps receives a little reward for doing so.

Aside from the Money magazine article, we have a few bones to pick with Dave on other matters.

I am reminded about the Financial Peace University (FPU) course that Dave offers.  It’s a great course and worth every penny of the hundred dollars or so it costs per person for thirteen weeks of video (Dave is excellent in the videos) and class discussions.  We’ve taken it and facilitated it at our church several times.  It’s a lot of effort by church and community volunteers, setting it up, getting recruits (Ramsey does help with advertising flyers), collecting course money, ordering materials, securing a facility to show the videos and hold classes, prep time, presenting the videos, and time leading the class discussions.  Depending on the size of the class, several or many small discussion group “leaders” are needed too, all volunteers.  It’s a huge commitment for about three months. The only thing that has ever bugged me about this whole process is that no one makes any money from it, except Dave.  Granted, in the end, it does help a lot of people.

And then there was the “Oprah incident,” as my wife and I like to call it.  We were excited when, several years ago, we heard that our then hero, Dave Ramsey, was going to be on the Oprah Winfrey show.  We made a point to watch – and were disappointed.  At the critical moment of giving his wisdom-packed advice after hearing the plight of one struggling couple – Dave blew it.  I think he thought it would be a shocking surprise of an answer that would nail his reputation as a wise rebel personal finance counselor, but he spoke too soon.  He blamed the man for not knowing his wife had racked up a bunch of debt.  It was obvious to us, Oprah, and everyone else watching that clearly this man was not at fault.  Even Oprah said something like, “Oh, Dave, I don’t think so.”  Dave tried to pull his foot from his mouth after the commercial break, but unsuccessfully in our minds.

Speaking of foot in the mouth:  In one of his FPU videos, he made a comment about taking risk and getting burned and said something like, “If you play with crocodiles…”  He was referring to crocodile hunter Steve Irwin and that was long before Steve got killed.  I’ll never forget the time hosting an FPU class soon after Steve died.  That particular video had not been updated yet.  When it got to that part where Dave was putting his foot in his mouth talking about the Crocodile Hunter, there was a gasp from the audience.  I cringed in embarrassment.

Then, our personal beef with Dave.  Who knew there is a right way to get out of debt?!

We were always huge fans of Dave Ramsey, yet along the way we noticed that he could be as rigid as a square with his seemingly unbending, black and white approaches.  Sure, for people who are in debt up to their eye sockets he has to take a hard line, recommending they cut up credit cards to stop out-of-control behavior.  But like a drug counselor, Dave assumes that everyone in debt is a debt addict and must avoid it at all times.  Maybe it’s because he gets tired of giving good advice, only to watch people not follow it.  While that is often true, we have found that many people just need to start paying attention to why they are negatively charged!  Once smart folks start paying attention, they figure out the right things to do.  People change.  Hello hero, goodbye zero.

If you’ve read any of Dave’s books or taken his Financial Peace University course, you’ve learned that because of his personal experience with creditors (who insulted him and his wife, among other things) that he has a strong disdain for credit card companies or getting a car loan of any type.

So Dave has his reasons for being rigid on things.  But that hard ass black or white approach ended up knocking the wind from our victory sail when we wanted to call in to the Dave Ramsey show and brag about our being debt free.  Let me back up just a hair first, though.

We did something Dave would not like at all.  We got a loan for a three year old car.  At that time, we owed about as much on our house as we did for that car.  Not long after, we decided to pull money from savings to pay off the mortgage instead of the car.  Why did we do it in that order?  So my wife could reduce her work hours without fear of a looming mortgage.  A large mortgage payment scared her more than a small car payment.  It wasn’t really about the amount of money owed or the interest rate.  It was about a life choice.  You see, working full-time while someone else got to spend most waking hours with our daughter bugged my wife.  She just wanted to cut back on her work hours. Weird, huh?!  So for us it was a no brainer:  Get rid of the highest risk debt first.

Talk about the irony.  Getting that car loan kept us off the Dave Ramsey show.  We were scheduled to shout, with a big ol’ southern drawl, “we’re debt free” on Dave’s radio show.  Then the producer declined to have us on the air because “Dave wouldn’t like” how we had gotten a taboo car loan.  We wanted to say “Hey, but we’re debt free – does it really matter how we got there?”  Who knew that we were debt free losers?

Enough of the criticisms, though.  If you’ve ever heard Dave talk about giving, and how so much more good could be done on this earth if, being out of debt, we could easily give more to good causes, then you understand where his heart is.  I believe Dave’s heart is truly to help others “get it” with money, so that the world is a better place for them and for others they can help as a result.  And he’s living that dream.

So this is for Dave Ramsey:  Despite all the criticisms, we still love ya, Dave.  You’re doing the world much more good than not, and that’s about the best legacy any of us can really hope for.  Just don’t be too proud to tweak your stances on a few things, if needed, as this crazy world continues to change.

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The Success Essentials by Daniel Murphy

10 Wednesday Jul 2013

Posted by moneygooguru in Growing Wealth, Help is out there

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***FREE eBook for Limited Time on Amazon***

Starting July 10, The Success Essentials by Daniel Murphy will be available for free on Amazon for a limited time.  Don’t miss this powerful book on how to be successful in whatever you do.  I highly recommend it.

THE SUCCESS ESSENTIALSFirst off, this book was written by someone who gives out a lot of information for free about personal finances and personal growth and development. I already had respect for his writing and “helping others” kind of attitude. So when I found out that Daniel Murphy had written The Success Essentials, I was very interested to find out what he had to say. The book is a distillation of reading hundreds of “success” type books over the years. That kind of experience, as well as Daniel’s own story about discouragements and success, add credibility to this book. Yet there is a humble spirit behind it all, as he challenges the reader to not merely believe what anyone says in a book, but to think critically about what and how to apply the information.

Daniel makes it clear that YOU must define what success is for you. So often, authors assume that everyone’s definition of success is being rich financially and so they write books on how to get rich. This isn’t one of those books (though these principles certainly could make one rich). He emphasizes that re-reading the book (to reinforce and internalize the ideas) is critical.

This book is a straightforward read, distilled down to the major points without extra fluff. Yet no critical detail is left out. It’s all in there – a lot of easy-picking wisdom. That is how a personal development book should be. If you follow these Success Essentials, you can do anything you want to do.

–Daniel Minteer

Learn more about The Success Essentials in the note by the author, below.

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Amazing Free Book Offer

Hi, Dan Murphy here with an exciting announcement. Back in 2011 I published my ebook, The Success Essentials. As good as that version was I knew it had to be improved.  I have added content and edited the original version to make it easier to read.

I am really excited though to announce that The Success Essentials is now available on Kindle! In addition you will receive three bonuses at absolutely no cost to you. And wait until you hear the best part…. The Success Essentials will be available at the absurdly low price of FREE. Yes, for the first five days only this book will be free on Kindle. (Keep reading even if you do not have a Kindle)

You may wonder why the price is so ridiculously low. It is really simple; it is because my aim in selling this book is not to get rich. (But I sure won’t object if a million people buy it!) My aim is to get this very helpful information out to anyone and everyone who can benefit from knowing what successful people all over the world know – the essential practices and disciplines that lead to success. I want to make this book so affordable that everyone can afford it.

Limited Time Free Offer – Act Now!

The first step in that process is to give it away for the first five days of the Kindle launch. The aim is to get it into as many people’s hands as we can. I want you to have this book, to read it, to loan it to others and to benefit from it. Kindle only allows the book to be free for five days… so you have to act quickly.

To get your free Kindle copy of The Success Essentials all you have to do is use this link to the download page: www.thesuccessessentials.com

Of course it will not be free forever. This is a limited time offer. It is free for only five days. After that there will be a price.

Once you download the Kindle book you will find instructions in the book to download your free gifts. It is that simple. No obligation to buy anything, ever.

Don’t Have a Kindle?

If you do not have a Kindle yet you can download a free Kindle Reader for your Mac or PC. It is free. Then you can download your free copy of the book and start reading and benefiting today. Get your free reader app at Free Kindle Reader for PC or Free Kindle Reader for Mac.

Then, most important, get your free copy of The Success Essentials now. Just click on www.thesuccessessentials.com! Act now… this is a limited offer… only five days. What are you waiting for?

Wishing you well,

Daniel R. Murphy

www.thesuccessessentials.com

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Uncommon Cents (why we don’t budget)

14 Friday Sep 2012

Posted by moneygooguru in Growing Wealth, Help is out there, saving money

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Growing money is all about dollars and sense, yet ironically we quickly lose our common cents just after payday.  Most people are not even doing the basics, ignoring the simple rudiments that our grandparents and great-grandparents seemed to know instinctively.  Often we find that at the end of the money, there’s a lot of month left.  We wonder where in the heck the money went.

Laboring so hard to earn the money, to spend the money, and to take care of all the toys we buy with the money, we resist and even resent having to do any extra work with the money once we get paid.  So we spend without a plan and get ticked off when the money skips off.  It makes no sense that we continue to run like crazy just to keep losing the race.  What we’re losing is our horse sense.  We busy ourselves with all kinds of other work, and don’t have or make the time for “working on our money.”

We’ve got boundless time for work, work, and more work – forty, fifty and sixty hours per week.  We find even more time to toil on the weekends to take care of our toys – washing the cars, scrubbing the camper, buffing the boat.  Then with what little time we have left we weed and mow, clean and sew, spend our dough, and then plop in front of the big screen after our blowout barbeque to do arm exercises with the remote in one hand and a bag of Doritos or cold beer in the other.  We have it down to an art.  Except one part.  We don’t work on our money once we earn it.

There are all kinds of ways to work on your money.  But none of them will matter if you don’t master the first step.  We’ve all heard that dreaded “B” word, “budget,” and we yawn as we think about ever actually trying one.  But having a simple, written plan on how you will spend your money each month doesn’t really take much effort.  Further, people who have done this regularly swear by how it prevents overspending and forces you to tell your money where to go instead of wondering where it flew.  So why doesn’t everyone do a monthly budget?  It’s wild, because doing a monthly budget would take less time than the commercials you suffer through in just one hour of television.  What do you really have to lose, honestly?  Missing ten minutes of embarrassing commercials on the potential side effects of medicines you can’t do without…yeah, you get the picture.

A few years ago Deborah and I helped teach a personal finances class where we covered all the money basics, including monthly budgets.  We told people that, yes, the first few months of doing a budget were painful for us because we had to figure out where all the money was going and then get it written down on paper.  But after a few months of perfecting it, we had a simple budget form and using it only took ten minutes or so a month.  What’s funny is that on more than one occasion since this class we have bumped into someone at the store or downtown that was in our class and they would say something like “you mean you guys are still doing a budget?”  As if a budget is just a temporary means to help someone out of a disparate situation or something!

A budget is king.  Our road from rags to riches had nothing to do with fancy investing.  It literally happened from consistently following our budget, month after month, year after year.  Investing is good, but what’s the point if you don’t budget because you’re probably hemorrhaging more money every month than you could possibly make investing.  It’s not really how you invest your money that counts the most.  It’s how you spend it (or not)!

Common sense would see the value in the monthly budget and do it.  Yet we spend more time deleting unwanted emails in one day than we’ll spend working on our money in an entire month.  Are we losing our minds?  We spend the very least time taking care of the thing that we spend the most of our time making!  But hey, we have over a thousand friends on Facebook.

Every dollar lost out of your wallet is another one that has to be earned again.  So enough already.  Learn to budget and shave off years of having to set your alarm clock.  Budgeting is not necessarily fun and glamorous, but I bet your job is not a barrel of laughs either.

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What Will Bad Information Cost You?

24 Sunday Jun 2012

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This article was written primarily about the inaccuracies in scientific and other technical information, but it applies equally well to financial data as well.

What if I said that much, if not most, of the scientific or technical stuff you “know” is really based on faith that what you once read or heard is true?

I Say Tomato, You say Tamoto

Interpretations can differ over the very same observations and data. Regardless of the scientific, engineering or other technical field, the differences of opinion are often over controversial experimental and measurement errors, faulty assumptions and/or unrealistic estimates.

Every experiment and measurement has error. Most research also includes assumptions and estimates of unknown (and sometimes unverifiable) conditions. As a result, scientists, engineers and other expertss have to attempt to estimate and report the effects of these uncertainties on the final conclusions. So while a theory may be well supported by experimental repeatability, the associated data supporting the conclusions is only repeatable within some margin of error (which includes the experiment and measure errors, assumptions and estimates).

Margins of error are always open to debate, even though statistical methods may be used to try and make sense of the significance of the uncertainties. When there are differing opinions on popular theories it’s not always the scientific or technical methods that are questioned, but quite often the experimental and investigative uncertainties.

Spin That Record

Even with differing honest interpretations of data and the associated uncertainties, it’s still possible to spin the conclusions to support your own viewpoint. So now there is another added possibility – the agenda twist. Sounds like a dance…well, it is actually. After twenty two years of experience with technical writing in the engineering fields, I can attest to the fact that many not-so-great ideas can be made to appear well-supported by technical references, calculations and other records with nothing more that clever penmanship and data filtering. Is that good science or engineering? No! But it happens.

Depending on how much bias the researcher may or may not have, along with the significance of the assumptions and experimental errors themselves, the uncertainties in the final conclusions are either highlighted for all to see (if they are considered insignificant), or downplayed and put in an obscure appendix in the back of the report (or not even mentioned).

And when you add technical jargon into the mix of subjective data interpretation and gifted creative writing, you get an elite class of self-proclaimed experts that have created their own special language so that others will have difficulty challenging their ideas. The common laypeople are steamrolled by the sheer magnitude of technical details and intimidated by the apparent authenticity. This really happens, and on an unbelievable scale!

Let It Go Viral!

Opinions and misinformation have never before had the potential to reach such a wide audience as they do today with the internet. The old school methods of publishing, especially scientific or engineering data and reports, was that it had to meet industry standards for accuracy and peer reviews before it could be published. But today this step can be bypassed, and on a grand scale (though usually not by true scientists/engineers) thanks largely to the internet and, more recently, independent publishers and a variety of self-publishing methods.

As never before seen in the history of mankind, today anyone is able to self-publish an idea and immediately make it available to a very large world population via the internet, and have the potential for that piece of information to go “viral” (viewed by millions and millions of people in a short period of time). That can be a great thing! But misinformation abounds.

Whether mad scientist or phony philosopher or Joe-with-an-agenda, nothing precludes them from publishing material in the mainstream without any scrutiny over the content or bases for the conclusions. Sure, readers can disagree and negatively comment and otherwise attempt to discredit it, but that has no real effect and in fact can actually help increase popularity.

At its worst, data spinning gone viral is an excellent brainwashing technique. Joseph Goebbels (Reich Minister of Propaganda in Nazi Germany from 1933 to 1945) is credited with saying “If you tell a lie big enough and keep repeating it, people will eventually come to believe it.”

Pass the Aspirin Please

A lot of legitimate technical reports are intentionally written for the “technically minded,“ using discipline-specific terms and very technical information. Nothing wrong with that. But understand that such information is largely unverifiable by the layperson. To fully grasp what is truth and what may be creative writing requires an education beyond the average person. It also would requires pulling every string and reviewing technical details associated with usually many years of research in order to come to any kind of reasonable conclusion on our own.

The typical person cannot or will not go to this effort. Those that are not scientific or technical nerd types may be prone to taking much of the conclusions at face value without questioning the supporting data (shame on us!). After all, these are respected and well educated people telling us this stuff, right? Should us average Joes believe them?

What happens when an article written for the scientifically or technically minded is put on the internet? What if it goes viral and gets ten million views? Nothing necessarily wrong with that either. But I would highly doubt that this many website hits are due to ten million scientists or other “experts” reading the article. Nope, average Joes like you and me are seeing what all the fuss is about. And so then millions of us are probably not taking the time to verify all the references. Might this be dangerous if the article purposely contained misinformation?

Remember those cigarette ads that were supposedly not targeted at minors? Or, suppose an adult stands before a class of first graders, tells them that the earth is flat and gives twenty-five scientific sounding reasons why it should be accepted as fact. The kids will believe them.

Your Trust in the Truth or a Trick?

Believing something that is written or said is frequently more about the persuasiveness and popularity of the writer or speaker, and less about the ever elusive proof.

Most of what the average person knows and believes about scientific, engineering or other technical “truths” is, plain and simple, taken purely on faith because it’s usually impossible for the layperson to verify the details.

Even though most scientists and engineer types make every effect to present truthful, unbiased information based on observable and repeatable experiments or methods, all experiments and measurements contain error and most research also contains assumptions and estimates.

Scientific and other technical uncertainties are sometimes downplayed and the conclusions given more weight than they deserve because biases and intentional misinformation persist in academia and nearly every other institution. We humans always seem to insert our selfish agendas in everything we touch.

Don’t believe everything you read, or it will cost you. But whatever you do don’t stop reading, or that may cost you even more!

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Are You A Scam Target?

26 Thursday Apr 2012

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Recently I attended a seminar “Spot the Red Flags of Fraud” hosted by the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority (FINRA).  Ironically, in the middle of the seminar I get a pre-recorded spam marketing call on my cell phone trying to get me to sign up for some rip off web service.

It seems that everywhere, every day, we are bombarded with “offers” to help us or make us richer yet designed to squeeze some blood from a turnip.  Personally, I have no trouble quickly deleting such messages from my computer or phone, laughing at the hideous TV ads or even being a little rude on the phone if I actually get a live person trying to get my money.  But many people are a little too nice when it comes to allowing a cleverly designed sales scheme pitched by a nice sounding salesperson to take hold of their emotions.

Here are some of the lines you may hear, all designed to snag you into their web.

  • How would you like to make some easy money?  Run!  There is really no such thing.  Success takes planning, time and hard work.
  • This investment opportunity is risk free (or has a guaranteed return).  Do not be fooled.  Investments are never risk free and guaranteed returns have conditions.
  • This product is available for a limited time only.  Do not fall for it.  They’ll be more than glad to take your money next week or next month just the same.
  • Everyone is trying to get in on this (or many of your neighbors, co-workers or family and friends are doing it).  So what!  Just because all your neighbors are jumping off a cliff, why should you?  Consider this: The majority of people are not doing so good financially, so do not copy them!
  • The sales associate looks/sounds so professional.  So does Satan.

As the old saying goes, if it sounds too good to be true then it probably stinks.

Okay, so we’re all safe from these pick up lines, right?  After all, it is usually just unsophisticated, uneducated people who fall for this, right?  Wrong.  Here’s the demographic that falls for such lines the most:

  • Male
  • Married
  • 55 to 65 years old
  • Financially literate
  • College educated
  • Self reliant
  • Recent change in financial health (or way “behind the curve” financially with lots of time to make up for)
  • Risk takers (always open to new investment opportunities)
  • Already owns high risk investments
  • Relies on family and friends for financial advice
  • Fails to check the background or registration status of products/sellers

Sound like anyone you know?  We know many who fit this mold too.

Here’s how we can avoid being scammed.

Ask questions, such as “Are you licensed to sell this product and is the product registered?” and then verify it.

Avoid “free dinner” type presentations that make you feel an obligation to reciprocate since you received something.

Avoid high risk investments.

Get second and third opinions in the investment, not from family and friends but from professionals (not salespersons) in the field.

Develop a “refusal script” for when you get calls or are approached with the “opportunity.”

Protect your asses! For more information, try these very useful resources:

Save And Invest (get free video, Tricks of the Trade)

Financial Industry Regulatory Authority

Washington State Department of Financial Institutions (find similar website for your state)

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